When you go after what you want you to experience the "scary" emotion because you may fear rejection or just don't know what your next move should be.
But when you have direction, and know exactly what to say, you will start to enjoy it.
The "scary" emotion goes away, and it's replaced with direction.
When you have this, you will allow girls to be attracted to you, send you sexy pictures, understand when she wants to see you, and how to remain in complete control when it comes to text messaging.
It allows girls to enjoy the excitement of getting to know you in the "controlled environment" this is where she starts to like you and wants to see you!
And when you know how to text you will create this environment with every girl you meet! You will know how to transition and not be her "texting buddy".
If you show that you are in control, she will feel safe and at ease with you- so you can text her without coming off creepy.
You will understand what will make you different than what every other man does when he is texting her or any woman for that matter!
In fact, when you're flirting properly, she'll be disappointed if you don't escalate.
And when you do this right, you'll feel to her like the most fun, exhilarating, and SECURE man she's been waiting all day for a text from you